A Word from Greenwich Police on Graduation and Underage Drinking at House Parties

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Preventing underage drinking at house parties during graduation season. Credit: Leslie Yager

This time of year is busy for families with teens. This is the season for graduation parties. House parties are the primary source by which youth obtain alcohol.

National surveys have found that the vast majority of high school teens report obtaining alcohol at their home with or without their parents’ permission.

The Greenwich Police Dept. reminds anyone exercising dominion of any property that they have a legal responsibility to stop anyone under the age of 21 from possessing alcohol on their property. Police note that legal responsibility means they may be held criminally and civilly responsible for any crime or injury that happens once that alcohol was consumed by anyone under the age of 21.

According to Connecticut General Statutes, C.G.S. 30-89a(a)(1)(a), No person having possession of, or exercising DOMINION OR CONTROL over, any dwelling unit or private property shall (1) knowingly permit any minor to possess alcoholic liquor.

The following are some party guidelines which may help to keep teens safe and underage parties alcohol-free:

Parents

• Prepare your teenager for the possibility that uninvited guests may arrive when you are away. Your teen should know where to reach you, another responsible adult, or the police.

• Call the parents who are hosting the party to ask them whether they plan on keeping it an alcohol-free party. Ask the host what time the party is going to end.

• Consider saying NO to any sleep over invitation extended to your teen.

• Be awake when your child returns home and greet them. Look out for signs of alcohol and drug use.

• Make a plan with your child to call you if they discover alcohol at a party.

• Make sure your child calls you if they plan on leaving the party to go somewhere else.

Hosts

• Plan the activity with your teen and discuss who is invited.

• Have a responsible adult at the door to enforce the guest list.

• Have sufficient number of responsible chaperones.

• Be visible and circulate frequently throughout the party.

• No one should leave the party and then return.

• Don’t allow water bottles and backpacks into the party.

• Call the parent if a teen brings alcohol.

• Establish areas of the house that are off-limits.

• Lock liquor and medicine cabinets.

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Preventing underage drinking at house parties during graduation season. Credit: Leslie Yager

Teens

• Don’t get in a car with someone who has been drinking or doing drugs. Call your parents or Safe Rides at (203)869-8445.

• Don’t drink something if you unsure of it’s origin/contents. There are many drinks that can be spiked with drugs that can render you unconscious.

• Stay in groups; don’t let a friend walk off with someone if they have been drinking.

• If one of your friends makes a mistake, don’t make it worse by leaving someone alone who may pass out. Call a responsible adult and immediately call 911 if you suspect alcohol poisoning. You may be saving a life.

Sources: NIAAA, Connecticut Coalition to Stop Underage Drinking, and Parents Together.

See also:

First Selectman’s Youth Commission: Saving Safe Rides

End of the Road for Greenwich Safe Rides?

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  • Dimas

    This is the most absolutely, abhorrently incorrect way of dealing with underage drinking. Punishment of teenagers will lead to a continuation of the cycle of rebellion and trouble until one party snaps and can’t handle the cycle any longer, estranging those in the relationship even further. A parent needs to take an understanding standpoint. It does not mean they need to support underage drinking, but instead of trying to appear as a “perfect parent who didn’t do that kind of bad stuff as a kid”, they should explain that it is unhealthy as well as illegal.

    Poor article content.

    • Peter Negrea

      Yes, it’s true: Teens shouldn’t drink and parents shouldn’t let them drink. But those two things will always happen, no matter what the police or other people say. That’s why I helped reintroduce the Safe Rides program for Greenwich. We are running this Friday from 10pm-2am in the effort to reduce drunk driving, which is the REAL issue in our community. If you are a teen in a need of a ride home, call 203-869-8445 this Friday. If you have any questions please email me at peter.negrea@gmail.com

      Thanks,

      Peter Negrea
      President of the Greenwich Safe Rides Board